Beoric
8, 8, I forget what is for
If we are talking faux-medieval, the local lord probably wasn't there. Odds are he was at one of his other 10-20 manors, in one of this other villages, if we wasn't at the capital paying tribute to the king or taking care of other business, or on campaign fighting the king's war, or visiting friends or relatives.In my experience, 1st-level adventures where the PC's meet an authority figure typically have that figure be a local lord. The modern equivalent wouldn't be a meeting with the Queen of England, it would be meeting a small-town mayor or police chief.
In this case the small town mayor or police chief equivalent would be the village reeve or bailiff, or a vassal knight who held his lands from the lord. Maybe a castellan if it was a great lord with more than one castle. In any of those cases, they are still beholden to a higher aristocrat who is usually not the king. In England you might have had a sheriff ("shire-reeve") or constable, who were law enforcement officials who (I think) represented the king but might be appointed by cities/towns or "counties" (which I assume means by the local earl). The titles and duties vary from region and period to period, and I may be misremembering some of the details, but in general medieval society had a lot of layers, and the lower your standing, the lower the layer you would be dealing with.
Actual quote from a campaign in the 80s, when a 1st level PC was faced with a 14th level druid: "I go up to the druid, and I poke him!"That said, I agree it's a drag dealing with irreverent/socially awkward players who don't want to roleplay due deference to an authority figure in the game because they're banking on your, the DM's, lack of desire to throw them in the donjon/mob them with tower guards for lèse-majesté before the adventure even gets started. Everyone thinks they're Han Solo.